What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erogenous zones can also be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and presence. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. Although most touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is really like that touches. The hands of the giver are linked with his/her heart. The touch is loving, always concentrated on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and receives active and also feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be loving!
Filled with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and existence. Both the provider and the receiver are entirely present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Do not take a look around or being busy with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or getting the massage. A very mindful touch from the heart. Get also very purposely, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are really out of the question. Whatever occurs in the minute, completely consciousness, adoringly attuned to each other and the circumstance. Dreaming away or going to sleep is also not intended (still, when that's exactly what you need, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't about an established outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the strategy or the desired sequence of massaging that is crucial, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that what is required.
Tantric massages therefore often take an extremely unexpected course. Everything fits into a larger whole. For instance, a tantric massage does not constantly need to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the primary step in a terrific advancement.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We understood it for a long time, obviously, but since the #MeToo revelations, some things have come up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both giver and receiver always should be guaranteed. Loving attunement always precedes.
Set clear boundaries in advance
It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage should constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also totally okay (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have actually given/received many tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Activating and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ production/ intuitive energy.
Focused on the natural happy state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life intended at growing in love and awareness. In a flash you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but generally, that is a process in time. Tantra knows different methods to utilize on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose besides self-realization: restoring the natural (thrilled) state of being.
Generally leading to a terrific physical, psychological well-being
Tantra helps you to become more relaxed, more dynamic, more energetic, more loving and so far more. In fact, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Since this is exactly what happens often: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is totally Bonuses permitted! A tantra massage is normally good, sometimes delicious. We, for that reason, invite you to fully enjoy getting ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and techniques in typical. There is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (intended at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (targeted at pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (focused on healing).
Not Treatment
Well due to the fact that you are truly extremely energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but therapy is an occupation apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a detailed explanation, see the post on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stick out:
Tantra massage tips-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply good conditions (physically, but also mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand complimentary, do not push or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Develop in integration (rest) moments.
Demand complimentary.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, don't attempt to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear boundaries ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, of course. However, understand that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can come up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Avoid limitations from being crossed once again.
* Action by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes best. Delighting in the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and provide integration minutes (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply don't rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (however you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (often entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible healing effect. Even though tantra massage is not the very same as recovery, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you discover what it is like to like yourself.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a great deal of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you may end up being not just happy however even joyous. A thrilled state of being is possible. The more you give up, the better you will feel.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (shared) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, overjoyed state of being of the recipient.
* Typically leading to a wonderful physical, mental well-being (of both).